The Gospel - John 11:(1-17)18-44
Homily by the Rev. Dr. David Smith
The Final Act
Last week at Judge Light’s memorial service, Bishop Light said something
particularly worthy of note. He reminded us that Lent is not only a season,
but also an experience.
It is an experience of that which we dread and fear most -
death. And, it is a season in which we
might learn how better to deal with it.
We parents spend an extraordinary amount of time teaching
our children how to live. We do our best
to teach them honor, dignity, perseverance, sensitivity, love, compassion and
generosity, the primary attributes necessary to make it through their lives and
enjoy some modicum of success however they may choose to define it.
But, one lesson many
of us forget to teach our children, before it is too late, is how to die.
To this day, I have not shed a tear over my father’s death,
and I doubt I ever will. After I conducted his funeral, people commented on how
difficult it must have been, or how surprised it could be done without tearing
up. Well, maybe it is because I’m
heartless and unfeeling, but truth be known, there was nothing to cry about
(except maybe the sadness of my mother).
You see, my father
died well. He died loving life, but
completely unafraid of death. “I’m not
afraid to die,” he said. “I just hate leaving the party when I’m having such a
good time.” He was full of hope,
optimism, and excitement for the mystery that lay ahead and beyond.