The Gospel - John 14:15-21
Homily by the Rev. Dr. David Smith
The Promised Companion
One of the most significant studies currently being conducted among mental health professionals is on loneliness. As you might imagine, it is difficult to gather data because the definition of loneliness is very subjective and amorphous. What feels like loneliness to one person is little more than being alone for another. But signs indicate that the Baby Boom generation, of which many of us are a part, is heading for something of a loneliness crisis.
In previous centuries and up to the first decade of the 20th century, extended families dominated the social landscape. In 1900, 65% of all Americans lived in rural areas and the foundation of our economy was still agrarian. Everyone in the family lived on the farm, worked the farm, and looked after one another.
When mom and dad became ill, it was often the eldest child that moved into the big house and took care of them until they died, and then continued to live in the house until their death was overseen by their children.
In the 1950’s about 10% of American households had one person in them. That number has now climbed to 33%. The reasons are varied but the three D’s have something to do with it: death, divorce and deferred marriage. However, there is also a phenomenon known as “Living Together Loneliness”.
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