Acts 17:22-31 , Psalm 66:7-18 , 1 Peter 3:13-22 , John 14:15-21
Homily by Fr R Christopher Heying
“Always be ready to give an account of the hope that is in you” (1 Peter 3.15).
As a relatively newly ordained priest, I was invited by the rector for whom I worked to sit in with him as he did premarital instruction for a couple.
Toward the end of the hour, Father Wise looked at each of them and asked, “Now, if you could change anything about the other person, what would it be?”
Each responded much the same way, “Oh, I wouldn’t change anything about him.” “I love her just the way she is.” Now I couldn’t help but wonder—thankfully to myself and not out loud—“Are you kidding me?! You’ve got to be on drugs!” I just assumed that they were lying to Father Wise, to each other, and, most problematically, to themselves.
By then Cindy and I had by been married for ten years, but I don’t think it took ten days to figure out that each other might benefit from at least some improvement! Isn’t it funny how opposite qualities which at first attract (she’s so smart and thoughtful and he’s so lively and talkative) can become such sore points (why won’t she say anything?! Won’t he ever just shut up?!).
No doubt such examples could be multiplied, but in the hope of avoiding divorce by the end of the morning, I’ve probably said quite enough already.
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